Latvia

I had just put my bags down in Riga, Latvia, when a black car pulled up to the curb and out of it, a stocky Eastern European bulldog of a man appeared, speaking in grunts, hand gestures and no English. Sent from the Latvian Squash Federation, he was here to fetch the American pro and bring him across town to a nondescript squash and tennis center. And off we went.

An old town at the end of the tunnel

An old town at the end of the tunnel

Greeting me at the club entrance was Latvia's sixth best player who, along with his hitting partner, took turns hurling everything they had my way for over an hour on a tucked away, dimly lit court with multicolored walls. Playing top club players is a different game than pro matches- instead of being the underdog, this time I was the target. These guys, and later the Latvian #2, 3, and 7 players, took turns throwing the kitchen sink my way, and in some ways this was a better way to train: play with the bullseye on your back and find a way to fight off everyone else gunning for you.  

When the battle was over I met up with Ieva, the daughter of a Pauls, who is a close friend of my friend Catherine's Latvian-American friend from college Erika's cousin's parents. Of course. I slept on a couch in the top floor apartment of Ieva's grandmother who was out of town, sharing the space with two other friends visiting Riga that the family also generously took in. Ieva's dad, born and raised to Latvians in the US, spent a summer during grad school at a newspaper in Riga during the early 90's. When, that same summer, the country's independence movement took hold, he found himself playing the role of late twenties grad student turned independence advocate. The family hasn't left since.

Ieva led me into the old town of Riga and down a winding stairwell into a cellar of a restaurant serving classic Latvian cuisine (aka, creative variations of meat and potatoes) at Latvian prices (aka a few bucks a plate).  We split potato pancakes and in a narrow decision I elected to play it safe for homemade Latvian meatballs over the one kilo of roast pork served on it's own carving table, keeping in mind I did have to workout early the next day. Laughs and cheers from the friendly Latvians mixing with jams from a three piece string band echoed throughout the den, potatoes and beers on a crowded Riga Tuesday night- it was pretty easy to begin to see why everyone around the Baltics spoke of Latvia as on the way up, shedding the last remnants of it's Soviet occupied past. The next day after squash we hit a microbrewery and then headed to Piens, Latvian for "Milk", which was the Wednesday night scene in the city. Amidst tight jeans and deep house beats the locals lamented to me Piens was once an underground hipster hangout but now is mainstream and yuppy. I learned Latvian yuppy is still American hipster but a lot less pricey.

Old town of Riga, Latvia

Old town of Riga, Latvia

Ieva and I wandered by the cathedrals and cafes along the cobble stone roads of Old Town, and one of the Latvian players, Miks, led me through the remodeled harbor and beaches, past quiet residential streets of townhouses lined with blooming flowers and green trees below stone cut facades and balconies – Riga's take on Manhattan neighborhoods, just less busy, a little less in a rush. I spent a couple mornings just wandering. On foot in Riga you could pass a Russian potato pancake parlor and a tunnel from the 17th century, pile up dumplings at a dumpling buffet for a couple Euros, stop by a raw garden food bar before taking a seat along the river and in just a few hours feel some kind of bond with this unassuming city and its people you wouldn't ever have predicted. I ran into an older American couple from Washington State and we marveled in what seems like one hell of a kept secret that are these Baltic states. As we parted, the husband turned back and threw a pat on my shoulder, "keep up the journey. You'll only be young once. You'll be old forever."

Best sklandrausis I've ever had

Best sklandrausis I've ever had

After my last day of training with Miks, Ieva took me on a walk a few streets down her neighborhood. Rounding a nondescript corner things turned alive, as we ventured into an evening summer market in a courtyard enclosed by a rebuilt cluster of wooden buildings, previously abandoned from the Soviet era. From the courtyard came live music, a wine bar and food stalls with families and young couples wandering about, their Thursday routine. From one woman I bought "sklandrausis", a potato mashed with carrot puree and pressed onto rye bread, which Ieva explained was usually only found in the Kurzeme region in the northwest of Latvia. 

If you get offered deer sausage, you don't turn it down

If you get offered deer sausage, you don't turn it down

Next to the woman was a hunter grilling sausage from deer he had hunted the other day, and across from that stand a woman sold buckets of sweet juice from inside a birch tree. Across the street stood a few other abandoned buildings that hadn't been touched, one of those little reminders of the past for a country enduring change. With this market and others, as we walked block by block, could see the evolution of a city. A checkered mix between the last remnants of it's old guard and the new seeds of what's to come. And that's what made it so cool. I'm sure in ten or twenty years things here will be different- maybe there will be chain restaurants, pricey booze and entrance fees- but for now there was none of that, just friends hanging out on a Thursday together. I couldn't help but think these Latvians have figured it out. 

Just another Thursday night in Riga

Just another Thursday night in Riga

Beach volleyball taking over in the new age of the Riga waterfront   

Beach volleyball taking over in the new age of the Riga waterfront   

Deer sausage from the hunter himself. Tastes like chicken   

Deer sausage from the hunter himself. Tastes like chicken   

What you would not think of finding in Latvia: Gluten free quinoa-based pancakes with fruit from a raw garden vegan cafe in a trendy new part of town

What you would not think of finding in Latvia: Gluten free quinoa-based pancakes with fruit from a raw garden vegan cafe in a trendy new part of town

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Estonia

 

My great grandfather left Lithuania for New York City on a boat at the turn of the 20th century and ever since I heard his story, I dreamed up a roadtrip through the Baltics and into Lithuania whenever I had a break in tournaments. That break was now, and off the boat in Tallinn at the top of the Baltic states, I grabbed a seat on a bus heading south along the coast and through the forest to the Estonian summer capital of Pärnu.

Downtown Pärnu, Estonia

Downtown Pärnu, Estonia

Aliis Allas was my one squash contact in Estonia- a squash fanatic, the Estonian women's champion as well as the best player, man or woman, in Pärnu. Along with her husband Ardo, Aliis runs the Estonian Squash Federation and when we were put in touch, went out of her way to get me to Pärnu for training and junior coaching. We had traded only a few sporadic messages when she picked me up at the tiny town bus station, handed me the keys to the guest cottage at her parents house and explained that everything here was walkable- fifteen minutes from "downtown" to the beach, another thirty seconds from the beach to her parents home a block off the water, where I would be staying. White picket fences and all, the homes and streets and shops were idyllic in the way I imagine Santa Monica or Long Island must have been back in the 1950s- open white sand beaches, boardwalks with families and few tourists, artisan coffee shops and cafes, stirred around from the salty ocean air coming off the Baltic Sea. I fell in love pretty quickly with Pärnu.

Hangin' with Aliis' son Andreas. Stud.

Hangin' with Aliis' son Andreas. Stud.

Aliis grew up in this town of 35,000 and found squash as a kid, rising up the ranks and taking over the three court squash club from an older member a little while back. She met Ardo while coaching him a couple years ago, and the two of them are singlehandedly pushing Estonian squash forward. By day Aliis is a physio and Ardo runs a forestry management company he started from scratch three years ago, selling all of his belongings to get it off the ground and almost folding shop three different times along the way to becoming the market leader in his industry. By night they try to rally their country around our sport.

For Aliis, the challenge for squash here is exposure and resources- "the players don't know what good warmups, good drills, better players look like. I am the only coach, and I can only coach part time. But we are growing." From hardly any juniors when she took over, the club now has a dozen, expecting to double in the next year. On court, I was surprised by the play of the top juniors. They were raw but they had the part that most kids don't: the passion. They joined me for my court sprints and fitness, took in every little tip and idea I could think of, drank up every last bit of the squash kool-aid I could offer.

Junior clinic with Aliis and Estonia's next generation of squash players  

Junior clinic with Aliis and Estonia's next generation of squash players  

Things took an unexpected turn for the best when I learned my weekend in Pärnu coincided with the town's annual Grillfest, a "Good Food Festival." You. Must. Be. Kidding. Grilling + Festival: a one-two punch of the two things that I enjoy most. It was just heaven: barbeque sets for miles, food stalls and pop up tents for as far as you can see, the sweet smokey scent of charcoal leading you in a hundred different directions at once. Rack of lamb and ribeyes roasting on open spits, chicken kebabs and pork tenderloins and full pigs rotating over charcoal, dozens of salmon filets charring against aluminum foil over fire pits. Craft beers and homemade truffles and toffees and ice creams, one stand selling pancakes because why not? Country music, cowboys and swing dancing, a parked bus with a bar and more food inside.

Grillfest: the best fest of them all

Grillfest: the best fest of them all

Salmon for days  

Salmon for days  

I have experienced grilling in grilling hotbeds like Wisconsin and I had celebrated July 4th barbeques all my life and yet I had never experienced something like this. Running into two Americans near one of the salmon pits, surrounded by dozens of charcoal grilling salmon on all sides, we exchanged our mutual disbelief. I did a lot of training to balance the glory that was Grillfest 2015.

It turned out the Estonian national soccer team was taking on the tiny country of San Marino up in Tallinn for European Cup Qualifying, and it also turned out that Aliis' brother is a former Estonian soccer legend who now works for the organization and came up with two tickets for the game. So after squash training and a clinic with the juniors I said so long to Pärnu and with Ardo headed back up through the forest and to the capital city. Found our name on the 'VIP List' at the stadium and slipped on our bracelets, scarfed down the buffet of kebabs and saurkraut with a few ciders on the side, took our seats in the second row from the field and cheered on the country with a few thousand other die hard Estonians. All the while I did my best to play the part and blend in, did my best to pretend that this all wasn't one big absurd, surreal dream. 

VIP for a night  

VIP for a night  

Old Town, Tallinn

Old Town, Tallinn

After the game I was dropped off at the home of Külliki, the mother of Janika, who I met for an hour at the squash event in Copenhagen a few hours a week earlier. Külliki and her three dogs- Delandros Archie Elliot, Perfect Stranger No Problem (which felt fitting), and Tazkia Bohemia Genao, or Vip, Rap, and Teeba, for short- became home in Tallinn for my last days in the country. I learned how to cook with coconut oil and roll up eggplant with garlic the way the Estonians do it, shared my special Egg Stir Fry: Tallinn Edition, and became buds with Delandros Archie Elliot, who Külliki informed me was the European Champion in his breed a few years back. At the dinner table my last night Külliki marveled at how things have changed in Estonia- how I would be cruising on bus across the border to Latvia the next day. In her twenties was a different scene: a brutal occupation by the Soviet Union, closed borders and armed guards, nowhere to go, living in fear. How was it? "Lousy...dangerous." 

Over leftover salad and a bottle of white wine we put on Drew Barrymore's latest romcom with Estonian subtitles and later The Bachelorette Season Finale. Janika's mom and me and working our way through the wine as the last two bachelors squared off on the TV before us in her flat near the edge of the city, the three dogs stretched out on the cushions, Delandros Archie Elliot, the former European Champion, fast asleep on my lap.

The four amigos   

The four amigos   

Pretend like you've done this before... 

Pretend like you've done this before... 

The top of Tallinn

The top of Tallinn

Until next Grillfest 

Until next Grillfest 

Signed the wall at Aliis' club in Pärnu. I'll be back.

Signed the wall at Aliis' club in Pärnu. I'll be back.

Denmark, Sweden, & Finland

RIP! A strap snapped and the squash bag was on the loose, sliding down the check-in area of San Francisco International Airport while somewhere across the concourse a flight to Denmark began boarding. I had a three week break until my next tournament, a couch set up for the next night in Copenhagen, and nothing planned after that. Strapless and sweating, I was on the plane. On to Scandinavia.

Nine months later, taking Neha up on her Copenhagen couch offer 

Nine months later, taking Neha up on her Copenhagen couch offer 

I first met Neha Kumar competing in two European junior tournaments ten years ago as teenagers. It's a funny friendship but like most ones through squash- a Canadian and a Californian who rarely cross paths during a year, never share the same school, state, or country, yet are brought together through our niche sport. We hadn't been in touch since our college squash seasons until one afternoon last fall when Neha sent a message offering up her couch if I was ever in the area. Nine months later, I was in the area. 

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Fresh off the twelve hour overnight flight I slid past the security entrance with Neha and into the United Nations Copenhagen headquarters, trying to kick the smell of plane food and sweaty jet lag and figure out the visitor badge as we headed for her office at the UN. I wanted to tell Neha's colleagues just how lethal their coworker's forehand was when we were 15 years old or how she can still beat most the guys I know but I did my best to keep it in. We wandered through the harbor after work and traded life updates, made guesses at where things will end up knowing well it's all just a guess anyway. I'd like to think these little moments and conversations with friends like Neha are the things I'll remember most when I look back on all this.

That weekend it was back to training. Tagged along to a local club championship event and on Saturday got on court with Jens, a former semi professional soccer player turned high grade squash player and fitness beast. During the day Jens is a bass baritone opera singer who freelances around Denmark. Singing is Jens' passion and sometimes the visibility can be tricky "but I know what the next year looks like so that's good." I wouldn't call myself an opera guy but I thought Jens' triumphant shrieks and rallying cries sounded quite soft and smooth as we chased around the court for hours. The opera singer and the other guy sparing at a near empty Kløvermarkens Tennis and Squashcenter on the edge of Copenhagen, backlit by a 10 PM Danish summer sun that refused to set.

I had never met Carl Trosdahl until the next morning, when I arrived in Stockholm temporarily couch-less. Minutes later, good news from my Dartmouth buddy Stoian: his best friend from high school in Norway is a cool dude with an open couch in Stockholm. Three different plans had fallen through and it worked out for the better because Carl was indeed a cool dude. That night we met up with some Swedes and headed underneath a bridge to Trädgården, a hip nightclub that, in between electronic house beats, was projecting the Sweden-Nigeria Women's World Cup match on the side of the bridge to hundreds of excited Swedes and a few ambivalent foreigners. Between beers and deep house against the cement underpass, Swedish chants and rallying cries, I surveyed our crew: Carl who I met that night, plus Josefine and her sister, both of whom I had met for a day hiking last summer, and Josefine's girlfriend Elvira. A Swedish dream team.

I was welcomed into training at the Stockholm squash club Roslagen, Josefine introduced me to fried herring and I powered through a two hour wait with Carl so he and his Tesla coworkers could show me the "best American burger outside of America" at Flipping Burgers. In Stockholm my last minute accidental roommate became a real friend as he shared what he had- his couch and Netflix, movie tickets and long park runs, beers and tacos at his go-to Mexican spot. It was mundane same old same old living and it was hard to leave. 

Training with Jaakko (l) and Tatu in Helsinki

Training with Jaakko (l) and Tatu in Helsinki

Finland has approximately 2 million saunas and in my short stop in be country I wanted to see as many as I could. I was in Helsinki to stay and train with Jaakko Valhamaa, the Finnish #4 and world #187 who I first met in the New Zealand circuit of tournaments last summer. Jaakko finished his mandatory military service a year ago and has spent almost every day since on the court. We ate fish and more fish, trained with another Finnish national team player Tatu at the country's national training center and for recovery afterward, stopped at a sauna "club" along the ocean, where, for $15 euros, we alternated sitting amongst the regulars in a hundred and something degree traditional wooden sauna and dipping in the fifty something degree Gulf of Finland saltwater. After that, I didn't need to see any more saunas. 

I spent the last night of the Denmark/Sweden/Finland swing with Jaakko and his mom, grilling salmon and roasting potatoes and sitting outside on their porch in the town of Espoo, a half hour outside of Helsinki. We sat in mostly silence, polished off milkshakes made with Finnish licorice in the flickering twilight of early summer daylight around us. Movie night and then off to bed, sleeping next to a trophy case of medals in the room of Jaakko's sister Jenni, the former European junior figure skating champion. Early the next morning I was on a boat heading for the Baltics.

Ice cream with licorice: always a good Finnish  

Ice cream with licorice: always a good Finnish  

Stockholm waterfront

Stockholm waterfront

Old town, Stockholm

Old town, Stockholm

So this is what the outside of a Finnish sauna club looks like

So this is what the outside of a Finnish sauna club looks like

Crossing the Gulf of Finland, on to Estonia

Crossing the Gulf of Finland, on to Estonia